What do I do about my ears splitting?

I have gauged my ears down at the lobes. At first i just put in a 16 gauge but they have stretched to a 14 gauge. The holes aren't two low but they have split and im afraid that they might split all the way down.





I have a friend who gauged her ears to a 14 and her holes dont look split at all..


WHAT DO I DO?What do I do about my ears splitting?
They won't split all the way. My ears went from an 18 gauge slowly down to a 2 and they split every single time. It hurt and looked crappy for awhile, but you can't tell now that they tore at all.What do I do about my ears splitting?
i don't think they will, 14 is hardly anything.